It is often believed that it is a woman who determines the wealth and success of the man beside her. She is the keeper of the hearth and inspirer, and everybody notices the effort she puts in her spouse: if he is well-fed, if his shirts are ironed, and how much he makes. It is a matter of honor for a woman to inspire her man to earn more. But how to do it so as not to go too far?

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1. Be straight about your priorities

Living alone is a whole different thing. Everything just  works out somehow when you live on your own. A partnership involves some kind of agreement between two personalities based on common goals. This conversation may not be the sweetest or most romantic you’ve had with your chosen one, but it is worthwhile to prepare for it and set things straight: what are your short/long-term plans with your husband, how will you reach them, and who will do exactly what?

2. Step back

Don’t forget that you are just breathing life into a project called “happy family life,” and your role is a supportive one. Remind the man that he is in charge, guide him on the way to achieving his goals, but never give unsolicited advice. You know how annoying it can be.

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3. Loosen the reins

Don’t push it if something doesn’t go as planned, and don’t lie. All of us do things we regret later. Time spent on the wrong goals is lost forever, but a wise woman who can timely say that the cause isn’t worse the effort is a goddess in the flesh. Her intuition can be trusted, because men often don’t see such subtleties.

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4. Don’t fixate on money

Remember the famous story of Henry Ford’s wife? Patience, sympathy, and sensibility to her husband’s career are the light she used to hold over his head. You too, light his way and remember that constant dripping wears away a stone. And your husband will surely achieve everything if you give just a bit more strength.

5. Don’t lose yourself

It is much more interesting to move as one than to drag your common dream in opposite directions. Have some kind of personal aim, the way to which will bring you pleasure. And it’s not so important whether you are a successful businesswoman or a housewife. From weight loss to mastering manicure skills – do something to stay interested and interesting.

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A woman’s greatest role and talent are to show her man that he is worth something. Your faith can give him wings. Just once let him know that you and the rest of your family see him as a support and protector, and the money will flow. But it probably won’t matter that much then.